Sunday, January 25, 2009

[C] For Future Reference

I wish I had the artistic talent to animate the series of moments that comprise toddlerhood, flashing by in fits and bursts like the choppy frames of an old motion picture. Luckily someone has done it for me. I came across these two films by Jeff Scher, which capture perfectly the fleeting impressions a parent experiences as days turn into months and years. But almost more apt is how he describes "the omnivorous now in parenting, and the constantly shifting challenges and demands of the moment, that creates a kind of rolling amnesia for everything yesterday." It is a relief to know that I'm not the only one who can't remember exactly what happened when, even milestones that seemed so unforgettable at the time. In some cases, this is a good thing. Who wants to relive a trip to the emergency room, for example? But in most instances, I feel it simply justifies the ridiculous number of photos that I take - almost ten THOUSAND pictures (and counting) will sure as heck make for a pretty good archive someday...

- C

1 comment:

Corn Bean said...

Liked that. Especially like the -- sort of -- film-y quality of it -- almost grainy -- like it's a memory, but maybe not all that concrete. Or something. The days are long and the years are short, right? I know I will miss the terrible twos when they are long past, but I admit I'm also so eager to get to the read-with-them in bed Little House on the Prairie/ Harry Potter stages. I can't wait to share my favorite books. Pray they love reading as much as I do. :) xo